Danny De Gracia: Why It's Miserable To Be Stuck In Hawaii's 'Middle'
Playing by the rules, trying to save money, and doing your best to feed the kids and pay the bills? Try harder this election season.
March 25, 2024 · 7 min read
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Danny de Gracia is a resident of Waipahu, a political scientist and an ordained minister. Opinions are the author’s own and do not necessarily reflect Civil Beat’s views. You can reach him by email at dgracia@civilbeat.org or follow him on Twitter at .
Playing by the rules, trying to save money, and doing your best to feed the kids and pay the bills? Try harder this election season.
For the last 15 years, a number of Hawaii residents have been increasingly plagued by a phenomena some call 鈥渂eing stuck in the middle.鈥
The term refers to what happens when one鈥檚 social and economic mobility is frozen by a set of circumstances largely outside of an individual鈥檚 control that keep them locked in a state where they make just enough to get by, but not enough to be happy or move up in life.
Worse yet, residents who find themselves stuck in the middle may also feel they are invisible to policymakers, as their voting demographic often doesn鈥檛 attract the kind of political representation to push them out of their rut. Because politics is often about the friction that occurs between haves and have nots, the middle, transitional space just between haves and have nots 鈥 the 鈥渉ave just enough but not that much鈥 if you will 鈥 are the forgotten, expendables in moments of social upheaval. Many such individuals work, live, and ultimately, die in the background of Hawaii, unfulfilled and frustrated.
Before we explore this social phenomena further, I鈥檇 like to ask you a potentially indiscreet question that you may or may not have ever been asked before.
Are you a normie?
鈥淒anny, a 鈥 what?鈥 you may be saying. I asked if you might be a 鈥渘ormie.鈥 It鈥檚 a term that originally gained traction online during the presidency of Barack Obama among politically engaged persons on the politically extremes of far right and far left, but now has become an important concept in the emerging political conflict to define the future of America.
The closest thing in your vocabulary to what a normie constitutes is a political 鈥渕oderate鈥 but a better description is to say a normie is someone who basically exists (but not thrives) in society with conventional beliefs, typical expectations, minimal vices, few excesses, maximum social conformity, and is your average garden variety individual.
They get up in the morning, they cook breakfast, send the kids to school, go to work, pick up the kids, cook dinner, go to sleep, and repeat the same thing the next day. They don鈥檛 protest, they don鈥檛 hold signs on Beretania Street or Pennsylvania Avenue, they usually vote for the same party without fail their entire life, and they aren鈥檛 given to wild swings of opinions, unless of course, you really make them mad or inconvenience them.
They don鈥檛 buy expensive cars. They don鈥檛 take out huge loans they can鈥檛 pay. They occasionally take the kids on vacation, but do so only after saving for long periods of time. They are the most miserable people in Hawaii, because they happen to be the most responsible people in Hawaii, a state that rewards irresponsibility and excess.
This is not to suggest that they are not exceptional. In fact, many of them are the glue that holds society together so the fringes can gripe without consequence. They aren鈥檛 radicalized, and want society to be predictable, stable and consistently governed by the same set of rules they鈥檝e been trained to play by their entire life.
You鈥檒l find many normies working in fields like insurance, education, health care, the civil service, police and especially the field-grade officer corps of the military. Normies, since the end of World War II, typically come from a long line of middle class professional suburban Americans and end up becoming, themselves, middle class professional suburbanites just like their parents and grandparents before them.
You won鈥檛 ever see the press release when a normie engineer at NASA fixes a key communications satellite problem. You will, however, see your for-profit media report on the axe murderers and new entertainers or celebrities.
鈥淣ormies鈥 are hated by the far right and far left because they see, mostly, nothing wrong with America, the idea, or America, the country as a whole. The only thing 鈥渨rong鈥 for a normie is when they see that a government bureaucrat or elected official neglecting basic services and infrastructure that they鈥檝e come to depend on, because if the traffic gets out of control, or the school bus service becomes unreliable, that threatens the normie鈥檚 ability to do what they do best and must do above all else 鈥 go to work, make money, feed the kids and pay the bills.
Yes, if you鈥檙e a normie, chances are you have a household income of between $55,000 to $250,000, you have at least a college education, you are very skilled or very technically proficient in something rare and mysterious that important people pay you to deal with so they don鈥檛 have to themselves, and you鈥檙e likely upset that both Democrats and Republicans don鈥檛 seem to know what they鈥檙e talking about lately.
Key normie gripe: Things are not so bad, things are not so great, but things sure as hell aren鈥檛 what they鈥檙e supposed to be.
And why do normies know better than the Democrats and Republicans in charge? Because in all likelihood, they鈥檙e probably also the cogs in the collective machine that鈥檚 being run into the ground, so they intimately know better than others what works and what doesn鈥檛 work. But because they鈥檝e been trained to work hard, keep their heads down, save as much as possible, and hope, in the end, 鈥渋t will all work out,鈥 the normies are doomed when all is said and done.
This is the growing problem we have in Hawaii and all across America. If you want to make a political name for yourself in 2024, ally yourself with either the elite faction or the oppressed faction, because both extremes will get you the publicity you need, the volunteers necessary to shake up society, and the fame that will get you ultimately wealthy in the end from the same corporations that buy out everything and everyone else.
If you really want to get something done, don鈥檛 speak from expertise — pander instead to the very rich or very poor (I say all this sarcastically, before you start writing me hate mail). If you want to be noticed by elected leadership, don鈥檛 organize your neighbors — organize a non-profit. If you want to have things named after you, don鈥檛 do great things in this world. Instead, cut great checks to weak men and women in local power.
The French infamously said 鈥渄emography is destiny鈥 and God forbid that you should ever be doomed to be a middle class normie in Hawaii. It鈥檚 a thankless existence of working hard, studying hard, following the rules, doing your best, and discovering, when all is said and done, it wasn鈥檛 enough.
So to our City Council members, mayor, state legislators and governor, if you鈥檙e reading this, know that a society that is divided cannot stand. The bulk of your residents and citizens are doing their damndest to obey your laws, pay the taxes, make ends meet, and they too have hopes and dreams that have gone unfulfilled for too long.
Just because all of us don鈥檛 have a voice doesn鈥檛 mean we鈥檙e not suffering, and the time will come when the middle class normie is tired of being crushed by all of society, and that just might result in a very different political future for all of you.
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Yes, you have defined the majority of the population. Pay your taxes, work your 8-4, save a little and vacation in Vegas. Pretty mundane, but true in many instances. The middle carries the state and it's ridiculous $19B budget, which most don't ever see in services, or value. The city of Honolulu, is probably the worst of the bunch blowing through over $3.5B for shoddy roads, parks, sidewalks cluttered with filth and homeless and mindless traffic, rooted in 60's era thinking. But, few complain, or take a stand. Most continue to be sympathetic to the continued degradation of the state we live in, or move to places with more value, better government and results. Realize that nearly every legislator before you, right now, is in favor of raising taxes. How asinine is this when the state and city have shown they are not capable of financial prudence, or value added results (ie rail, stadium, more notably). This is merely a transfer of wealth into the hands of the connected and a reliance on the public to keep the status quo in place.
wailani1961 · 9 months ago
And we the workers support even the 'Normies' even as we the workers are/could be content renting for life at reasonable rates. Many feel ownership of land not theirs to own but to rent is fine. Greed by too many has not allowed normalcy to prevail. 'Too Much is Never Enough' is the mantra of the greedy. Abuse Aloha for personal gain.
anikaloki · 9 months ago
Couldn't help but think of this 19th century Hawaiian poem. Nothing new under the sun. Not even the human experience.SURE A POOR MANI labored on a sugar plantation,Growing sugarcane.My back ached, my sweat poured,All for nothing.I fell in debt to the plantation store,I fell in debt to the plantation store.And remained a poor man,And remained a poor man.I decided to quit working for money,Money to lose.Far better work day by day,Grow my own daily food.No more laboring so others get rich,No more laboring so others get rich.Just go on being a poor man,Just go on being a poor man.
KanakaAbroad · 9 months ago
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