Danny De Gracia: We Can All Learn Something From Henry Kissinger's Life And Public Service
The late secretary of state was hated by many. But he made tough decisions in moments when few were willing to serve.
December 3, 2023 · 6 min read
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Danny de Gracia is a resident of Waipahu, a political scientist and an ordained minister. Opinions are the author’s own and do not necessarily reflect Civil Beat’s views. You can reach him by email at dgracia@civilbeat.org or follow him on Twitter at .
The late secretary of state was hated by many. But he made tough decisions in moments when few were willing to serve.
Though polarizing and controversial to conservatives and liberals alike, in addition to serving as national security advisor under Richard Nixon and secretary of state under Gerald Ford, Henry Kissinger was a life-long, back-channel adviser to many U.S. presidents and foreign leaders throughout the years.
Kissinger鈥檚 book, remains an essential must-read for international relations students, and is the definitive text for the realist school of political thought.
Among the more polite criticisms of Kissinger, he was labeled post-Vietnam by some detractors as “the deep state,” “the permanent establishment,” or “a court intellectual.” or colorful, unflattering expletives for things they heard or read about Kissinger in the post-Cold War era.
Others may have called him “flamboyant” as the former secretary , or even a “playboy” for about his date-ability in the magazine of the same name.
When I look at the long life and public service of the late Kissinger, what I see instead is an example of how knowledge, experience, and an ability to make tough decisions in tough moments from limited choices are critical to saving our country.
People may hate me for saying this, but we need more people in government like Henry Kissinger, who can boldly step out of their safe spheres of either absolute realism or aesthetic ivory tower idealism in the situations that require them and make a call, right or wrong, rather than being paralyzed by indecision.
There is a lesson in all this for Hawaii, where we too often purport to place such a high premium on abstract concepts such as “the community,” “kuleana,” and even “aloha,” but then are unable to execute decisively when situations require, or worse, cannot advance beyond activism to implementation. It鈥檚 too easy to fail at government, then choose to spend the rest of your days at a nonprofit being paid to advocate for the things you personally failed to do when you were in government power.
Further, today鈥檚 Republicans have become too comfortable with their set of professional intellectuals and advisors, and Democrats are likewise too comfortable with their own, and few in this community are ever so sagacious or useful as to effectively serve both spheres of influence. The mark of a truly valuable servant in politics is not someone monopolized by a single political wing, but someone who can serve all factions with useful advice and practical options.
When asked years ago during a press conference about then-President Bill Clinton鈥檚 performance in office relative to Richard Nixon, Kissinger told reporters something that stuck with me to this day: 鈥淚n order to be a good leader, you have to have an understanding of historical cycles and courage. And that is something you can鈥檛 get from polls.鈥
To be fair, Kissinger said and did things over the years which, in the copacetic, sanitized circles of modern academia and social media, could be considered uncouth, arrogant, ruthless, insensitive, and even evil. Famously, even among Israelis, persists to this day, in which Meir, appealing to Kissinger鈥檚 heritage for military help, was rebuffed. 鈥淵ou must remember that first I am an American, second I am Secretary of State, and third, I am a Jew,鈥 he said.
鈥淚n Israel,鈥 Meir pointed out, 鈥渨e read from right to left.鈥
Was Kissinger a saint? Of course not. But politics and government service are for people who take action and who can make decisions and work with other difficult people to produce solutions and outcomes that move us forward.
It is too easy in 2023, with the amen chorus of our social media followers and the deceit of being surrounded by hand-picked friends who only believe what we believe, to be comfortable as a virtue signaler with an opinion on everything.
We want people to be perfect without being perfect ourselves, and we expect, with some degree of narcissism, to be revered as experts without actually being experts, and modern government is loaded with people who approach the world this way.
When we talk about Israel and Gaza in 2023 on social media and what should be done there, we don鈥檛 actually live in Israel or Gaza and don鈥檛 have to experience the consequences of doing or not doing the things we suggest. When we talk about Ukraine and Russia and what should be done there, we don鈥檛 actually live in Ukraine or Russia, and don鈥檛 have to be accountable to the extremes of our ideological absolutism.
It has become easy to excitedly call for things in 2023 without suffering the fallout of the things we demand others accept.
The hubris of being a social media thought leader in 2023 without having any of the experience, any of the academics, or any of the skin-in-the-game to be relevant is something we must be careful to avoid, especially when placing labels on people as “war criminals.” Kissinger was a man who served America, and who did his job, in his moment of service.
That鈥檚 a lesson all of us need to remember in these days and months to come. We have to emphasize action and decision-making, right or wrong, over paralysis and no decision-making at all. We have to put a premium on flexibility, over self-defeating ideological rigidity or partisan purity.
We have to be willing to recognize that what this world needs are not perfect men or perfect women, but rather, people who actually show up to work and do work. We desperately need people who can be present, get things done, and do what is necessary to solve problems no one else wants to deal with. That is what functional government is about.
That is the greatest takeaway of the realist school of political science, and I believe, the best lesson from the life of Henry Alfred Kissinger.
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Danny de Gracia is a resident of Waipahu, a political scientist and an ordained minister. Opinions are the author’s own and do not necessarily reflect Civil Beat’s views. You can reach him by email at dgracia@civilbeat.org or follow him on Twitter at .
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Kissinger was a war criminal and deserves nothing by our contempt and absolute condemnation. He will go into the annals of history as an evil man responsible for the deaths of millions of people. Call me crazy Danny, but I don't want a government full of sociopathic mass murders!
YourFavoriteUrbanPlanner · 1 year ago
Most commentary on Sec Kissinger contains far too much hyperbole. He has had successes and failures. Inherited multiple foreign policy messes from the Johnson administration, and largely with the abject failure exceptions of Cambodia (led to Khmer Rouge) and Chile (Coupe of an elected leader). Blind support of the Shah of Iran(administrations Eisenhower through Carter did same), who terrorized his own country which led to the Iranian Revolution and remains a vexing problem for the US.Achieved Dente with Russia along with the first limits on Nuclear Weapons (SALT I Treaty) while pulling China away from cooperating with Russia. All done while keeping Japan and Taiwan's trust and faith in the US, but without addressing North Korea which now has nuclear capabilities. Lesser known are engagements to keep Turkey/Greece and India/Pakistan wars from escalating.A fair estimate was that he was active a far from a do nothing or little Secretary of State. Whether he sorted out promoting and affirming this nations values, interests or politics in the right order to the world is indeed debatable.
Citizen · 1 year ago
There's a reason we are 34 trillion dollars in debt and our former allies are abandoning us. Our track record of foreign and domestic policy for the past few decades cranked out one disaster after the next and yet we never held our ruling class accountible for their failures.
ItsOK2bHaole · 1 year ago
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