Beth Fukumoto: Feeling Like You Don't Belong? Try High School Sports
Football and other sports can serve as an antidote to alienation and negative health and emotional consequences.
November 23, 2023 · 5 min read
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Football and other sports can serve as an antidote to alienation and negative health and emotional consequences.
High school sports are a quintessential community experience. They bring together neighbors, families, friends and even rival politicians to cheer on their hometown teams. The atmosphere buzzes with the energy of the crowd, the bright stadium lights and the players’ excitement on the field.
On Friday, my hometown team, Mililani High School will face Kahuku in the First Hawaiian Bank Football State Championships, and as I am once again away from home, I鈥檝e already begged my sister to FaceTime the game with me.聽
Let me start by admitting that balance is my only physical skill, which means I can stand up on a paddleboard and manage most one-footed yoga positions. All high school sports were beyond my capabilities. Fortunately, my sister has infinitely better hand-eye coordination, quicker reflexes and a longer attention span so I had plenty of time to observe the community-building power of team sports.
I鈥檓 one of those people who only likes sports if it鈥檚 the Olympics or the World Cup, though I鈥檒l watch anything at the Stan Sheriff Center if it includes garlic fries. High school sports, however, are an entirely different proposition.
For a spectator, nothing rivals attending a public high school football game. The sheer volume of players, cheerleaders, and band members ensures you鈥檒l have a sizeable crowd of supporters who will meet every play with cheers, groans and gasps. Emotions are palpable at these games, and it鈥檚 not only as the outcome of the game hangs in the balance.
The camaraderie, the teamwork and the unwavering determination of Hawaii鈥檚 youth on the field are inspirational. These teams bring together players from different backgrounds and different social circles to rally around a common goal. High school sports give players and the community around them a sense of belonging that鈥檚 missing in many of our lives.
Feeling that we don’t belong impacts every area of our lives, depression, anxiety, stress and poor physical health. Youth who participate in team sports are more resilient to these outcomes. Research suggests that high school athletes have higher levels of , fare better in the , experience fewer issues and later in life. They are also to volunteer, vote, and follow the news closely.
As adults, we should support our youth when they choose to dedicate their time and energy to a team. With mental health issues and absenteeism rising amongst Hawaii鈥檚 teens, supporting local athletes is a positive way to reverse the state鈥檚 downward trends. But getting involved with your local team, or at least attending a game, can also help strengthen your broader community.
When communities come together to cheer on their local teams, it creates a sense of shared identity and a common purpose that is hard to find elsewhere. These collective experiences create bonds across barriers that have value beyond sports because these ties are the same ones we call on when our communities face hardships and disasters.
Last month, we saw Maui residents converge on Wailuku鈥檚 War Memorial Stadium to support Lahainaluna鈥檚 football team in their first game of the season due to the devasting fires. As Civil Beat鈥檚 Paula Dobbyn reported, the 鈥済ame that many describe as the lifeblood of Lahaina鈥 provided the community with an opportunity to trade stories, share frustrations, find hope and heal together.
Kahuku鈥檚 Red Raiders provide another great example. In January, NFL 360 featured the Red Raiders in short documentary, , that showcased the team鈥檚 enduring impact on its North Shore community.
As Kahuku Head Coach Sterling Carvalho to NFL 360 viewers, 鈥淲e鈥檙e the heartbeat of this side of the island. And how the football team goes, the community goes.鈥
The piece shows supporters with red flags and shirts lining the streets before every game to wish the team well and interviews the mentors that helped the team process the untimely deaths of both coaches and players. It highlights that investing in these community bonds builds a system of resilience, pride and a sense of shared responsibility that surpasses the sport itself.
While Lahainaluna and Kahuku High Schools are exemplars, each of our communities has the opportunity to follow in their footsteps and rally around the teams that can both improve the lives of Hawaii鈥檚 youth and build stronger communities that know how to celebrate, mourn and overcome together.
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Really can't support the oftentimes violent us versus them mentality of the fans. Plus it's not very healthy for the participants, neither is boxing, hockey, and other sports where contact is required in a brutal way.
Scotty_Poppins · 1 year ago
The growing trend seems to be to cut extracurricular activities like sports and the arts, of which I have to say whoa... Wait a minute! Being active in the arts, music and sports makes you far superior by building your cognitive skills, improves focus and reasoning. Music and art creates elasticity in the brain that creates more pathways for which to learn. Sports utilizes those pathways and makes you more cognitive and much more in focus in other subjects like math and science. Playing sports increases blood flow to the brain making them more attentive to details with better reasoning skills. It raises on average GPA scores from . 45-.74. It is said if you play a stringed instrument the folds in the back of your brain starts to create circular patterns. Einstein played the violin. Sports increases determination and self esteem. They work in tandem, especially in the fields of spatial reasoning (solving puzzles) it helps the various parts of the brain communicate faster with each other, and grows your brain. If you want a super kid have them involved in both. They will make better overall students whether in Science or English, or even in the world of finance.
TheMotherShip · 1 year ago
New football stadiums, new baseball fields, new track and field surfaces, but, as Megan Tagami wrote in a recent Civil Beat article, some schools don't have a fire alarm system....New football stadiums, new baseball fields, new track and field surfaces, but, as Marcel Honore wrote in this Civil Beat issue, the state of Hawaii has an outdated computer system to process unemployment claims...Nice way to spend taxpayer dollars....
nkc · 1 year ago
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