How Did Abuse Get Baked Into The Restaurant Industry?
Allegations of abuse by high profile chefs are not uncommon.
Allegations of abuse by high profile chefs are not uncommon.
When the and recently published expos茅s in which employees of award-winning chef Barbara Lynch described their abusive work environments, we weren鈥檛 surprised.
Anyone who has spent years working in restaurants probably wouldn鈥檛 be surprised, either.
As sociologists who study the culinary industry and its workers, we recently published research showing that many kitchen staffers 鈥 and often inevitable 鈥 part of working in restaurants.
鈥楽howers Of Slaps鈥 And 鈥楪rab-Ass鈥
Much of the reporting provided damning accounts of Lynch鈥檚 own behavior 鈥 her alleged mistreatment of employees, tirades, threats, groping and sexual innuendos.
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But while Lynch may be in the spotlight today, she and her alleged behaviors are, unfortunately, closer to business as usual in restaurant kitchens, where .
Numerous articles and chef memoirs dating as far back as the late 1800s have detailed everyday forms of abuse in restaurants. For example, pioneering French restaurateur Auguste Escoffier wrote that his first chef 鈥渂elieved that it was impossible to govern a kitchen 鈥榮ans une pluie de gifles鈥欌 鈥 without a shower of slaps.
Some, such as Anthony Bourdain鈥檚 memoir 鈥,鈥 even romanticize these behaviors. At one point, Bourdain fondly recalls a kitchen he worked in early in his career as having an 鈥渁tmosphere [that] was not unlike a Pinero play, very jailhouse, with a lot of grab-ass, heated argument, hypermacho posturing and drunken ranting. Two burly men who鈥檇 just as soon kill you as look at you, when talking to each other, would often nestle a hand tenderly next to the testicles of the other, as if to say, 鈥業 am so not gay 鈥 I can even do this!鈥欌
The allegations against Lynch are only the latest in a long string of high-profile chefs and restaurateurs who have been accused of cultivating similar physically, psychologically and sexually violent workspaces.
, for instance, was accused in 2019 by an employee of groping and indecency, charges that he was acquitted of in 2022 and resolved with a civil settlement.
Oakland chef and New York restaurateur also came under fire during the #MeToo era, with each accused of sexual harassment and assault. Hallowell ended up selling two of his restaurants and penned a , while Friedman .
In our own research, we wanted to learn more about how workers deal with toxic kitchen culture. Do they ever push back? Do they flee? Or do they put their heads down and simply rationalize it as part of what they signed up for?
If You Can鈥檛 Take The Heat 鈥
There are obvious economic realities that prevent many from leaving violent workspaces. After all, most everyone has bills to pay.
Quitting is also hard in light of the other upsides to professional cooking, such as creativity and freedom, sensory stimulation and reciprocal joy from watching a satisfied customer eat. One sous chef we spoke with described the latter as 鈥渓ife-changing to me. It was addicting.鈥
These pressures aside, the workers we interviewed tended to see violence as a core aspect of a hardscrabble kitchen culture that has existed for generations.
Others admitted that they鈥檝e come to expect as much after seeing the ways in which abusive chefs are 鈥 think Gordon Ramsay鈥檚 entertaining tongue-lashings on the show 鈥,鈥 or Ralph Fiennes鈥 recent portrayal of a homicidal chef in 鈥.鈥
Because those we talked to saw violence in kitchens as unexceptional, most of them responded to it by sticking it out rather than resisting it. Many of them viewed enduring violence on the job as just another task on their daily to-do list.
A key element of rationalizing the violence involved justifying the perpetrator鈥檚 behavior.
There鈥檚 evidence of this in both articles about Lynch鈥檚 restaurants: Workers and the public touted Lynch as an , a portrayal that presented her as an ally and may have softened her blows. Her of her own battles with substance abuse and childhood trauma painted her in a sympathetic light and allowed some staffers to excuse her alleged behavior.
Similar rationalizations were found in our study: A chef named Jesus, for example, recounted to us a time when his boss became so upset that, after berating his crew, he 鈥渇lipped everyone off and told them to 鈥榞o f鈥 themselves.鈥欌 But rather than note his boss鈥檚 inappropriateness, Jesus praised him for being 鈥渟traightforward鈥 and 鈥渉onest.鈥 In doing so, Jesus excused the outburst as simply a product of honesty and emotion, rather than of a work environment that bred such behavior.
We also noticed that Lynch鈥檚 own staff rationalized their decisions to stay 鈥 despite saying they鈥檇 been subjected to abuse 鈥 because they felt that working in Lynch鈥檚 restaurants would help them find better jobs in the future. This approach was echoed by several cooks in our study 鈥 a chef named Carsen, for example, explained away the abuse he endured once at a Michelin-starred restaurant: 鈥淚 was there for the experience. I wasn鈥檛 there because I was invested in the restaurant.鈥
Perpetuating A Culture Of Violence
As workers endure violence in kitchens, they deal with not only the harms of being targeted, but also the psychological and emotional discomfort of remaining at a job that causes them suffering.
Studies have also shown that learning to endure violence , as well as the incorporation of unproductive behaviors into victimized workers鈥 own actions. The latter can look like adopting abusive behaviors themselves or engaging in small acts of damaging rebellion, like sneaking a swig of cooking wine here or slowing the pace of work there. Cruelly, enduring violence unintentionally aids the process of making violent behavior feel and seem normal in the workplace.
So a cycle of violence perpetuates and reverberates, embedding itself deeper into the fabric of restaurant kitchens, often being passed down from one generation of cooks to the next.
Workers begin to expect it. Grant, a cook we interviewed, explained: 鈥淭he abuse is normalized. And sometimes romanticized as well. 鈥 Chefs being [jerks] is common in part because that鈥檚 the expectation for what it is to be a chef. 鈥 And while it [seems] like most places are getting better, it鈥檚 still a big part of kitchen culture.鈥
The accusations against Lynch are not exceptional. Sadly, we think it鈥檚 likely only a matter of time before another case of an abusive high-profile chef comes to light. Outrage will occur, and then it will settle. Rinse and repeat.
But culinary brilliance and artistry need not be pre-seasoned with violence. Not venerating violent kitchens and chefs would be a start. Perhaps reporting and resisting abuse, rather than enduring it, will then become the norm.
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