Many of our friends wonder what we do over here on Lanai, a place where they think聽鈥渢here鈥檚 nothing to do.鈥 This misses the point, because here we don鈥檛 do 鈥渢hings,鈥 we do聽people.

8 a.m. Wednesday: I鈥檓 cleaning up my banana patch. My single rubbish can is already聽overflowing. My neighbor, who lives on the mainland, has a yard man who sees this, and聽offers to back up his truck to my garage so I can dump my green waste in it.

鈥淚鈥檓 going to聽the dump anyway; just drop your stuff over here,鈥 he says.

I thank him with a few chocolate聽chip cookies, and he drives away.

8:30 a.m.:聽One of my oldest friends stops by on his way back from the beach. He鈥檚 having聽some legal trouble, and we鈥檝e asked a Honolulu friend to represent him in court. So we sit聽on my porch and talk about the specifics of the incident, but we also talk about his small聽farm, a new well that was just dug, and how his new hearing aides are finally working.

9:00 a.m.: He leaves as the phone rings. 鈥淩obin. Are you home?鈥

A fisherman friend, who I聽recently helped with some computer issues, stops by with a hot tray of sweet & sour聽kavakava. He tells me that he hasn鈥檛 been catching any large fish, so he made this dish with聽the smaller ones. He鈥檚 a good fisherman (and a good cook); this is his ono thank you.

Lanai Post Office

The Lanai Post Office is a central gathering place on the small island.

Robin Kaye

10:00 a.m.: I walk to the Post Office, one block from my house. There is no mail delivery on聽Lanai, all our mail has to be picked up here, making it a hotbed of local gossip and聽information exchange.

I鈥檇 gone over the day before to put some fresh chocolate chip cookies聽in my P.O. box and called in to the staff to 鈥渆njoy!鈥 The lines inside are long (six people);聽this is no time to go inside. I give up any 鈥渘ews鈥 I might have learned.

10:15 a.m.: I walk home and hear 鈥淩obin. You home?鈥 being called from the back of my聽house. It鈥檚 my gardening buddy, delivering five bags of soil additives. We unload the pallet,听shipped over on our weekly barge from Honolulu, and then talk gardening. We exchange聽seeds and bemoan the challenges of growing certain vegetables that don鈥檛 like our cool聽climate (it鈥檚 58 degrees as I write this).

5 p.m.: I鈥檓 sitting on my porch when I hear the front gate open. It鈥檚 my friend鈥檚 three聽daughters, all home for the holidays. One is in college on Maui, one in college and working聽in Honolulu, and the third is working two jobs in Honolulu (or 鈥渢own鈥 as we refer to it here.) I learn a little bit about their lives and they deliver presents from their family to my wife and聽me.

Before they leave, I give them a bag of chocolate chip cookies. We arrange to have a聽pizza night soon at their house, where they are caring for their aging tutu.

6 p.m.: The phone rings, 鈥淩obin. You home?鈥

Another fishing buddy delivers opakapaka.聽It鈥檚 very fresh; caught maybe three hours earlier. We sit and drink a glass of wine, talk story聽about fishing and travel. He leaves to have dinner with his fishing buddies.

6:30 p.m.: The phone rings again. 鈥淩obin. You home?鈥 This time it鈥檚 one of our oldest聽friends. His wife passed away several years ago, but his daughter is home for the holidays聽and she鈥檚 made his wife鈥檚 most delicious carrot cake 鈥 which she knows I love. He comes聽by to drop off this gift.

6:45 p.m.: Our 11-year-old dog goes crazy. She hears the diesel sound of the FedEx聽truck and demands to be outside. Patrick, the FedEx driver has arrived to deliver Amazon聽packages. But more important to our dog, Patrick (who has become a family friend) delivers聽a doggie treat to Dobby. This is a gift she anticipates every day around this time; from 5聽p.m. on, you can find here glued to the kitchen window, watching the front gate.

Lanai rainbow

A rainbow graces Lanai.

Robin Kaye

When I first came to Lanai in 1974, it was to document a very challenged lifestyle. A spinoff聽of Dole Co., Oceanic Properties, had announced plans to add 10,000 more residents聽with second homes, hotels and other resort developments. (That plan didn鈥檛 materialize then,听but my six-month project resulted in seven years on Lanai and eventually, my photodocumentary,
“Lanai Folks.” But that鈥檚 another story.)

Some of these plans have recently聽been revisited, revised and are likely to be slowly implemented by Dole鈥檚 latest successor,
Larry Ellison.

Back in the 鈥70s, I said this in “Lanai Folks:”

鈥淭he daily generosity, the small but important聽waving between drivers on the roads, the kokua to friends and strangers, the sense of place,听of belonging, the inherent goodness and lack of guile in many of the older Hawaiians 鈥斅爐hese, and, always for me, the beauty, depth and intensity of the land make it a good place to聽raise a family, or just to be.鈥

It鈥檚 now 40 years later, and you know what? Not much has changed. It鈥檚 still a good place聽to 鈥渏ust be.鈥

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