Most of us agree that Facebook is a heck of a tool to share photos, find old friends and maybe even spark a social revolution or two. But when does sharing private information on the social network go too far?

In one case, a Civil Beat reporter “friended” a 15 year-old family member and found he was a connoisseur of Mary Jane.

The green stuff, not the character from Spiderman.

Is it the grown-up’s responsibility to make sure the boy doesn’t post damaging information about himself online?

How do you broach the subject without getting “defriended?”

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